5.09.2012
In the beginning...
In June of 2006, a catastrophic flood forced my family and I to relocate. We lost almost everything due to water and mold damage. After we re-settled, I began to notice the house filling up with shit. Useless, unncessary, unused, unwanted, dust collecting, space hogging shit. Whenever we saw something we liked, we bought it. It was like a knee-jerk reaction to losing everything - suddenly, there were places to put these things that we didn't want, need, or use. So we did. I finally reached my breaking point about a year ago and decided that I was going to start changing the way that I consumed everything. I began to work in earnest on my book, The Necessitarian Manifesto, which originally began as a joke. I realized that I was losing touch with the important things in life and becoming swallowed up by the politics of want. I finished the book and began to try to live by the tenets set forth in it. I began by eliminating all of the clothes that I never wore. I got rid of 60+ articles of clothing (the first time!). I started finding people who needed the things I didn't want and when they asked me "How much?" inevitably the answer was "Free." I started paying attention to my triggers for buying - for me, super cool tech toys or musical instruments - and started ignoring my consumer impulses. I started growing a garden (this year will be the third year!). I gave away drum sets, bikes, tools, clothes, TV's, beds, blankets, more tools, video games, books - name it. My wife stopped me from giving away our van. The more things that I got rid of, the more full my life felt. I started having more dinner parties at my house, spending more time outside, riding my bike, walking, talking to my family, playing with my pets, and generally living instead of just being alive. I've never really cared too much for material goods at all - I've always thought of myself as someone who isn't impacted by marketing, commercialism, etc. Once I began to chuck my shit, I realized that as little as I subscribed to the gospel of consumerism, I still was an adherent - perhaps a semi-lapsed one, but still a supplicant. In a lot of ways, I'm still a consumer of non-necessities, but I have decreased my acquisitions dramatically. I build a lot of the things that I need now, and before I purchase anything, I ask myself if I really need it. If I don't need it, I usually don't get it. The Necessitarian philosophy has begun to creep into every aspect of my life - from how I handle my friends to how I landscape! Stay tuned...
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"All the stuff you think you have... it has you instead my friend.. It's time to let it go, I think it's time to grow out of this box you're in".
ReplyDeleteThe only thing anyone can actually possess is their own personal experiences. Combine enough of them and you get an averaging out of which experiences are the most solid/tangible... In my observation of collective objective experiences manifests a universal truth of the invincibility of Love and interpersonal integrity. (Just another interpretation of the universal 'Golden Rule' which every sustained, respectable culture from the beginning of the history of histories seems to have innately programmed into them... i.e. : you cannot possess anything you haven't given away freely.)